Straight men who were accidentally exposed to gay porn didn’t suddenly turn gay vanilla viewers who happened upon photo sets of extreme kink would complain that they should have been better shielded from, say, the sight of extreme bondage. Yet when I worked there, being exposed to the wonderfully diverse world of human sexuality didn’t seem to make readers more excited by unfamiliar kinks and sexual interests - if anything, it made my readers more interested in the various tags and filters that would allow them to quickly zoom in on the specific content that met their needs. Like PornHub, Fleshbot offers visitors a vast array of content, profiling porn that appeals to consumers with a wide variety of sexual orientations and preferences.
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In my time at Fleshbot, it became abundantly clear to me that people tend to come to porn with their sexual preferences already intact - and that, with some exceptions, those preferences remain fixed. It is, on the other hand, just enough time to arrive at a site, find a video that’s in line with your long established sexual preferences, enjoy the best bits and move on to other pursuits. Ten minutes isn’t enough time to begin to plumb the depths of depravity contained in the videos of PornHub, or to do even the most cursory exploration of unfamiliar genres and sexual acts.
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PornHub, the most popular porn site online, reports that the average time spent on the site is just under 10 minutes - less than half the length of a standard porn scene. But most porn consumers aren’t journalists or researchers, and usage data suggests their porn habits are vastly more utilitarian. It makes sense that journalists, whose jobs require research, might find themselves drawn down the rabbit hole of adult entertainment, fascinated by the increasingly perverse products they happen to uncover. But the evidence doesn’t back that assumption up. In a culture where open discussion of sex is taboo and the adult industry is heavily stigmatized, it’s perhaps not surprising that many people think of porn as a highly addictive, transformative substance. Journalists still seem convinced that, first, if an extreme form of porn exists, it’s common and anyone who watches porn will eventually stumble on it second, that viewing porn rewires our sexual preferences, often in damaging and terrifying ways and, of course, that pornography gives children unhealthy ideas about sex. A recent New York Magazine feature dubbed Pornhub, a top porn site, “the Kinsey Report of our time,” arguing that the breadth of perversity found on the site encourages increasingly exotic sexual exploration among its presumably vanilla viewers other commentators, including Cindy Gallop, founder of the website MakeLoveNotPorn, have also expounded upon the power pornography holds over our sexual tastes and behaviors. The arguments that show up in national publications today - and are often repeated by readers - are not so different from anti-porn screeds written decades before. But even as porn consumption has become a commonplace habit, we continue to treat it as something exotic and inherently perilous to our health and happiness. In the 10 years since I wrote my first Fleshbot post, internet porn has skyrocketed in popularity. What does shock me, on the other hand, is how ill-informed our public discourse around porn continues to be. At this point in my career, it’s fairly safe to say that there is almost no pornographic image that would be capable of shocking me.
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As editor of the porn blog Fleshbot, I spent hours combing the XXX side of the internet, acquainting myself with all manner of perversions and obscure sex acts. For six years, I immersed myself in the workings of the adult industry.